In this week’s podcast we answer the following question:
I’m an older queer guy who’s just started dating a really lovely trans man. Apart from talking to him, which we are doing, where can I get helpful advice and insight into my own “stuff”? I came out late in life – and I am not really used to a lot of the gay scene – which is probably an advantage! Any advice or comments gratefully received 🙂
We start with discussions about whether we will still be podcasting in 30 years time, how much MJ likes Red Dwarf, Derby County winning a game of football and then how to deal with crushes.
23rd of September is bi visibility day so we’re focusing on bi issues in sex and relationships. Being bi means being attracted (emotionally and/or sexually) to more than one gender.
We often talk on the podcast (and in MJ’s excellent book Rewriting the Rules) about the dangers of putting romantic relationships at the top of a hierarchy of relationships. But maybe this is also true for other things too?
Welcome to our guide to ‘No’. Instead of the usual bullet points and links we’ve written a kind of summary of the whole podcast here.
Where we chat about our favourite show ‘Master of None’ and give advice to Dev about how to do relationships.
Our latest podcast, where we talk about love stories and rom coms. Justin has been getting asked a […]
Here we talk about what we mean by ‘top and bottom’ in sex and relationships. Is it necessary, who does what and how to do it consensually.
“The other day I was on my boyfriend’s computer and these porn images popped up which disturbed me. […]
One of the things we want to do lots of on this website is to create zines that […]