Make your own relationship user guide


make your own relationship user guide


Many of us have grown up thinking that love is something that we have no control over: that if we have to work on our relationships then it’s not natural and it’s not real love.

We think love is a combination of something you make happen as well as it happening to you. What if we could try a more consensual and intentional way of doing relationships? That’s what this zine is about.

You might find it useful with any relationship or prospective relationship to ask the following questions:
– do I want a relationship with this person?
– if so, of what sort (we’ll come back to this)?
– and, why?